This time of year many young folk leave for University and have to leave home, not necessarily forever but certainly for long periods of time. This is the start of a new venture for them. This weekend my eldest boy Daniel (step son) will be going to York University to study medicine and become a Doctor. Daniel since the age of five has always wanted to become a scientist or Doctor and now the goal is happening through his hard work and determination. Mick his Dad has always been included in our family decision when it concerns Daniel which has helped keep a stable balance in his life. That was until Mick died just under two years ago from Cancer. Daniel's world was rocked badly. The emotional impact on him and the rest of us as a family was difficult to cope with but somehow you get through. Daniel incredibly showed us that his promise to his Dad on his death bed was to make it as a Doctor and nothing would stop him. He has worked hard but still lived with the passion of enjoying life as an elder teenager and has become a great role model for his younger brother Jason. Every single day this week we have seen tears from his mum, Jason and me and writing this blog today I am tearful. Great news is the tears are for joy too as we are so proud of him for the great achievement and when the farewells happen on Saturday at least we know Daniel will be fine. He has learnt many life skills and is extremely capable. Home life will be strange for a while but adjusting and adapting can be exciting when approached with the right attitude. Jason is already thinking bigger room for him.
So as Saturday approaches and I remain mellow and tune myself with positive thoughts of the future by living today and enjoying each and every moment and yes I will miss his fun loving nature but realise his inspiration for helping me this year through some tough challenges will be treasured forever. His return at Christmas will be a joyous occasion.
My tears are of pride and a sincere wish for his future as a great and brilliant Doctor, I urge everyone reading this to know whats possible when you take action. Take action on your dreams, goals or visions and make a difference for you.
Dr Daniel you are amazing.
Frank Steggall
Consultant
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